Rough Draft..."The Roots"

Going back to my "he said she said" blog, this I guess would be a spin off of it. I believe that we blow things out of proportion when it comes to dealing with issues. I blame television. Cause everything always plays out like an episode of "One Tree Hill" or something. The thing is, people talk, it's what we do best. But sometimes we get a little bit carried away. The more people talk about an issue, the more opinons formulate, and false solutions to whatever it is. In the end of it all, we really have no say in what the outcome is. Even if you're Dr.Phil, his opinion doesn't matter, unless it's wanted to matter. The only people that can solve the problem are the people in it. If our advice or help is asked for, help them, not the situation. That person isn't going to want to take certain chances, if they don't feel reassured it's going to help. Leave all the extra noise in your head, and help that person be still, amidst frustration. Water the roots, to help them grow - God is Love