When we're looking into getting a new relationship, of course, we want it to be better than the last one. We want all the things that didn't work to work in the next one. Which isn't wrong at all. Sometimes we get into the mindset that they also have to be, better looking, than our last person.. and that's where we fall apart.
An upgrade from our past relationship possess qualities in them that you cannot see. If we're looking for 'looks' then we've only downgraded ourselves.
So the next time your girl or homie says "She/He can do wayyy better". Look at the smile on that persons face and tell your friend "They have. And so can you". - God is Love